The direct approach has been my favorite tool for seducing the women I want to be with. I know you may think it is to forward, or may even turn your girl away. In my opinion, any lady who is worth having will already know you are a man with desires and needs. I like to let them know upfront by my actions that I am a very affectionate man. When we act like nervous school boys we give control and power to them. Moving straight toward what you want will send the sign to her that you are the one in control and you know what you want out of a relationship.
How To Get Her Attracted To You?
This direct approach does not mean you should walk right up and grab her butt or try to run your hand down her top during a movie. Instead, try all the small things that she will notice and have to think about. When you go to her place for movie night bring a bag with a change of clothes and a tooth brush. Try acting like you belong there. Just assume that it is okay. Make her ask what you are thinking and then look surprised when she has a problem. Ask her, aren’t we a couple? I mean we are together, so what’s the big deal? Many times it is hard for them to say no when they feel like they are messing up the relationship.
Maybe you’re the kind of guy who just can’t perform at this level. Then if you have the gift of gab you can try talking her into her affection. You will need to be serious but light hearted. The bigger deal you let sex be, the bigger it will get. Often, her shyness for sex reflects how she feels about security in your relationship. You being mature and rational will reassure her about your commitment. You can try a soft sell over a few days or so and then put a little more pressure as time goes by.
One of the best ways to gain someone’s trust is to value all the things they value. Even if they are small things that you really can’t understand why they mean so much, still take the time to care and talk about them and ask about them once you know what they are without her having to bring it up. By taking all of her stuff seriously; she is more likely to take things you bring up seriously. You can tell her how you want to be closer. How you don’t want to have space between the two of you.
The Expensive But Workable Method
Just in case you are a total d-bag, we will cover one more way to get the job done. Gifts will get you into a cycle of paying for the things you want in your relationship. You may think of this as giving the dog a treat for good behavior, but it is more like paying a hooker to be your girlfriend. Still, many guys keep their women happy with gifts or cash. Hand her your credit card and go ahead and look for that second job.
Back to using common sense and manly behavior. A woman worth having, knows that sex is a good part of a relationship. Having a heart to heart with an intelligent woman will go a long way towards a fulfilling relationship. She may want you as bad as you want her and if she feels like you are serious in your feelings, then taking the next step will come easy and natural. You have to make her feel it’s not all about sex and sex will not be such a big deal.
Unfortunately, there’s no guarantee if the above tips might work. As you know, women will never know what they want exactly. They could say they love you today but a week later, you’re being dumped for being ‘too nice’ to her. Or worst yet, while you’re out there working long hours to make her happy, you come home early one day to find out she’s sleeping with some jerk.
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